On PC it usually takes a month. I hope someone in you tribe has admin access that can let you back in. I would recommend leveling up a new character and let them give you the old character. Explorer note run on extinction is pretty quick. A friend of mine used 8 Grinders and Explorer notes to Max's he character out. Within an hour Because he wanted to change his name. Oh and when you get to level 32 use a toilet.When defecating on a Toilet, you will also get a +33% experience buff that lasts 120 seconds