It worked, thanks, the only difference is step 1, I closed the game then proceed to log out in the xbox app and log in(in the game)with a silver account.
But now, I created a dedicated game and when I try to join in console (via direct invite since the game is not listed in the servers list) I get the message:
"The client and host versions don't match" (not exact words), I will try to update the Windows 10 version now, will let you know if it works.