I have been playing for about 3 days. I have tried about 4 different official pve servers, and every one of them have this problem. I am about done trying to even multiplayer. I reside on 87, currently. I just lagged out so bad on one of those server saves that my account is frozen for at least 10 minutes, because it says I am in the game, and I am not. Usually, however, I lag on the world save for about 15-30 seconds. Still even 20 seconds is a game killer. I have been killed, rubber-banded to death ever since I tried to meet new people on this game. I am about done, and may just fly solo. If there was a unofficial that was close to vanilla I might join that, but imo games are supposed to bring you joy. Not this nonsense. I don't lag on any other game, but this. Mainly, because I know how to tweak a pc on my end. This is a server/client problem, and should of been fixed back when it was first announced back in 2015 on a forum I read. https://steamcommunity.com/app/346110/discussions/0/535152511342481016/ is the forum that dates back to 2015. This is crazy.
My specs:
5950x AMD Processor
64gigabytes of gskills memory
2070 EVGA Black GfX
2TB Samsung evo m.2 hard drive