I'm curious too! I purchased the game ASA and a Nitrado server yesterday to play Xbox with my Xbox friends and neither of us can find the server I made. I refreshed the game, I rebooted the server, nothing. I sent a message to Nitrado but nothing yet. It's been over twelve hours the server should be up by now. Is this the same thing you are all experiencing?
Did I waste my money?
I just want a PVE server to play with my friends I don't want others to join.