It looks like I've been moved to this discussion, but I want to make it clear I'm not concerned with trying to join the large servers. Does anyone know if it it is possible to play between steam and Xbox on a non-dedicated server, hosted either by the steam player or the Xbox server? We cannot find each other's games listed in the non-dedicated server when either of us try to host. I'm a little confused that I haven't seen anybody else even asking this question. If the game is truly crossplay, this should be achievable, but there is no clue given anywhere about how to do this.