Thank you guys for the replies!
I was logout dragged/drowned in my leather armor during the first days, since my hut was not closed. I figured out how to log out properly after that.
I watched stealing bird take away my tamed dodos, that was o.k. and fun I guess. I don't like the idea of a closed pen tho. But small eggs are not necessary anyways.
I managed to make a nice wooden hut with crafting (metal level). I made the hut light with lot of windows, I closed all of them too when I logged out.
Now what I didn't like, that the starter area was always patrolled by 3 Therinizosaurs, who are ridicolously O.P. for beginners. I watched them killing all my tames and myself.... that was not fun. Then I realized I could make a spiked wall around my land but I couldn't close it off because of land claiming issues. But even so I killed a Carno and a Therizino on my spiked walls. Then yesterday another Therizino was around and one of my Trikes was stuck behind so I went out to kill it. I had two trikes mate boosted (the one stuck far away) and a Stego (loved this one). I was attacking it on foot with a metal spear to draw aggro and save my tames from killing it. Guess what it killed me after switching aggro like 3 times, but my dinos killed it. Then a moron showed up with a santa hat who was just entering the server from playing on console previously, took the meat and hides from the therizino and took half my equipment when I rearrived. He was not even a beginner player just a toxic poop, was bragging about how bad it is on PC compared to console but never gave my stuff back....
So that was the point, when I decided to leave the official servers. Walked an hour at least with my dinos and dodos around the shore, around walled off parts... and thankfully the gate was open around the obelisk, because some moron walled that off too... yet my Stego somehow fell into the water and died by some shark with my stuff on it... and now I can't export myself out.
Thats my experience with the game so far....
I guess I restart on a local game and turn up the XP and taming times, since 1+ hour tames are ridiculous anyways.
I will miss the multiplayer part, wanted to fight bosses with a tribe. But at least I can pause the game and not anger myself about so many poop.