I started up a server on my pc through the xbox app on one account on my xbox. Everything was running smooth, ark loaded, I was able to bring up the server, and everything was fine. But then I went on my xbox to play on my server but first of all, it doesn't even show up on the server list, and second, if I invite myself to the server from the xbox app it just gives me the message "join failed" without any explanation or anything. I would appreciate it if someone could explain what is happening. Thanks.